Side chick, Main chick, Bullshit.

Here comes another rant...... 

Okay, now I know everyone has seen those posts and videos about side chicks. Side chick wrecking homes, how to be a good side chick, the main chick accepting the side chick....... All that bull.

(I know some of these videos and vines are jokes) 

And well I just felt the need to give my two cents. 

First of all, no women should settle to be a side chick or a main chick. You girls need to have some self respect. 

If a guy cannot see the value in respecting you and being loyal to you then don't be with him. It's really that simple. 

Second, to who it concerns you girls need to stop blaming "hoes" or "side chicks" for "wrecking your homes". It isn't her fault your man isn't loyal. 

The mere fact is, if your man was loyal he wouldn't be messing around with anyone. No matter how slutty, flirty, or thirsty a girl acts, he would simply say no cause he values and respects you. 

Third and lastly, you women need to give a man something to respect. Now I know this is a double standard but it's the ugly truth. Just cause men sleep around and act permiscuious doesn't mean women should. Don't get me wrong I don't agree with it, to me the same way a women can be a slut so can a man. But the difference is, he is going to be respected for it and as a women, your going to be shamed for it. 

Ya I know women fight for equality "no more double standards" right? I feel you! But we don't want equality so we can be just as disgusting as men. 

I can't stress enough how important it is to have self respect. If you can't respect yourself why would anyone else?  If you don't act like a lady, why would a man treat you like one? 

I'm just saying do you really think if you give it up on the first date he's going to have any desire to see you again? To go on a second date? To call you? No! Why would he? If he got some on the first date, then surly there must have been others that have too. 

(Not that that's the case but it is the assumption) 

I know it's 2015, we can do what ever we want right? But if you can tell a man he's disgusting for being a "dog" then why act the same way?

Love yourself, and respect yourself and others will too!!!

Comment and tell me your thoughts on this topic!!!!